Independent . . .

Finally can spend some time at home, thanks to the rain, i cannot go out to play soccer, fear that i would catch a cold and then affects my other areas of life. With reference to someone's blog about being independent and being vulnerable when sharing her feelings with others, and also felt like burdening the others. I think for those being her best friends should be quite sad by now, because they would just felt that a best friend cannot be trusted, and also best friends can only be just play and happy, and not someone who can support each other in life and walk through the tough journey in life. I guess i kind of agree that revealing of feelings to someone else you feel vulnerable, but that also means that when you are willing to be humble and also to be weak , because God says that let the weak be strong, and let the poor be rich. SO i personally think that it is alright to be weak in front of God and to those you trust. Other points that struck me , are the new ideas of "too much=cross talk, and quiet=PMS". i dun know why is there this logic, perhaps there is some very profound stuff which a guy cannot understand. Before i close this post, i felt that if God called us to be independent, He will not give Adam a partner! Then Jesus will have no followers, and God will not send the holy spirit to be with us, and God will not give us family members and friends, and God will not give us the language to communicate, and God will not give the animals and insects ways to communicate to each other, if God gives animals and insects and the nature community, communication means, isn't that even more assuring that God wants us to work together, to support each other, to be broken , to be weak so that Jesus and the Holy Spirit can work in you, at the same time using people around you to teach, guide and also to nurture you . I mean that is what best friends are for. So are you willing to let your best friends to be your pillar of support?