It has been a long time since we are doing stuff together, other then running the BB stuff. First we went to the SPA in the Paragon. The Massage was really painful, but after that i felt refreshing, i wonder is it because that my body was glad that he no need to go through that pain anymore, that is why he is refresh, or because the SPA is really good.
The we went to the HK eateries in Heeren, i kind of dun like that place, because i been there for quite a few times, and i felt that the food there is really OK only. Since majority wants to try that, then we went ahead. I ordered their famous Baked rice with cheese and pork chop. As i said the food is ok , so dun demand on the rice too.
After that i had to go over to paragon again to source out vivien's present, she wants a crumpler bag, i think that is the IN thing now, by the way the bag looks cool on youngster and sporty people.
Then we falls into a typical session again, on the "where do we want to go","who wants to do this?" "who wants to do that?" again. I kind of hate it last time, but as for now my hate becomes normal, because i understand that you cannot encompass everyone. So i just told them that i am going to K-pool in heeren to waste my time first, before we come into the decision where to go to.
After that they finally came into a decision of going to the K-box for Karaoke. SO we went over next door for the KTV. THis is the first time going with them. Due to TTX is with his friends and his the other 'to-be-gf' there, who i name as 'A' for now, is just 2 rooms away from us, so we just sang our songs, and when TTX came in we just disturb him with 'A'. Of Course we had so much fun that they came over to join us to sing. We made them sing duets and disturb them. I think is pretty obvious that there is some chemistry behind the both of them. We end the last song with "Is My Life". Of course that song makes my voice coarse.
For sure we end the event with the settling down for wanton mee.
Sunday, April 27, 2008
Tuesday, April 08, 2008
what is friend all about?
When I was young, friends are very important to me and they are part of me, so much more that they understand me better than parents, and when you are in need of help they are always there. They will tell you what is wrong with you and also appreciate your goodness. Friends to me are to share my joy, sorrows, anger, thinking and also secrets.
As time gets by friends start to fade away, we no longer have common objective, like studying together to have good PSLE and O’level grades, or no longer playing the same games or organization. When we grow up there are so many changes and each got their separate path to walk.
Recently I had a friend, which I got to know not long ago, the problem is that when she is quarreling with her boyfriend, she would then message me like, “Don’t message me anymore, my boyfriend does not like it.” Or removing contacts in MSN and friendster. Then after a few months, when she has a problem in making decision she would then get back to you and establish the communication again. I don’t mind to help, just forgive and forget what she has done. Then after helping her, again she got back into the deny of friendship again. I find it really disappointed with this kind of friend, this is my first time. So what I determine that instead of making myself like a fool, just letting someone to use me and throw me aside. I told her not to contact me anymore since I am creating that disruption in her life.
Actually part of me, the Christ-likeness, kept telling me to forgive and forget, and continue to help even she is making use of you. I suddenly got a feeling of what Jesus felt when Peter deny Jesus 3 times, that feeling must be damn bad, because imagine that your beloved brother or student suddenly says that you are not his brother or master, or a son disown his father. So compare my circumstance with Jesus, mine is totally nothing.
So do I want to be just a foolish and stupid to act as a “spare” for that person there to be made used of? Or should I view it in another perspective that God has showed grace and mercy to me and taking Jesus as a role model, it is a blessing which God gave for me that broken people comes to me so that I can bless others. So guess which do I choose?
As time gets by friends start to fade away, we no longer have common objective, like studying together to have good PSLE and O’level grades, or no longer playing the same games or organization. When we grow up there are so many changes and each got their separate path to walk.
Recently I had a friend, which I got to know not long ago, the problem is that when she is quarreling with her boyfriend, she would then message me like, “Don’t message me anymore, my boyfriend does not like it.” Or removing contacts in MSN and friendster. Then after a few months, when she has a problem in making decision she would then get back to you and establish the communication again. I don’t mind to help, just forgive and forget what she has done. Then after helping her, again she got back into the deny of friendship again. I find it really disappointed with this kind of friend, this is my first time. So what I determine that instead of making myself like a fool, just letting someone to use me and throw me aside. I told her not to contact me anymore since I am creating that disruption in her life.
Actually part of me, the Christ-likeness, kept telling me to forgive and forget, and continue to help even she is making use of you. I suddenly got a feeling of what Jesus felt when Peter deny Jesus 3 times, that feeling must be damn bad, because imagine that your beloved brother or student suddenly says that you are not his brother or master, or a son disown his father. So compare my circumstance with Jesus, mine is totally nothing.
So do I want to be just a foolish and stupid to act as a “spare” for that person there to be made used of? Or should I view it in another perspective that God has showed grace and mercy to me and taking Jesus as a role model, it is a blessing which God gave for me that broken people comes to me so that I can bless others. So guess which do I choose?
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