At this period of time i was going through th ML1, after ML 1 and then i proceed on with ML2, on one of the following session we were talking about are we able to start a realationship with a non -christian or not. My mentor's answer is totally a NO NO !! Because of the answer,Justin plans to give up hope on starting a relationship with one of his friend. Then i started to ponder and wonder . . .
It was at one time we were at the back of a lorry, and justin asked me what is LOVE to me. Then it was recently that this mind of mine has also thought of this question - what is love? and i managed to dig out some answers. For me i always believe in Chemistry(feelings), no matter how, there is a need for chemistry with that person you love, you can be friends with gals and you can be nice to every gal and gal can be nice to you. So what makes that differences, is chemistry and that chemistry is to bring from a level of friend to a level relationship.
So how did i answer Justin? I say LOVE is just like chemistry(science). 2 person is just like an elements, when they gets together, which is call bonding(in chem terms) reaction (energy) occurs,which is that LOVE feeling, the feeling of energy that drives you crazy that you wants to see that person every minutes and seconds, and the reside is the product which is family.
Bond can be covalent or ionic, and the bond holds both the elements together and is going to holds them forever. The bonds i refer to is the beliefs you have in common , the principles in life you have common, the same understanding and acceptance to things that you have in common. Beliefs can comes from religions or family. So religion is every important , because understanding can change, acceptance can change, but beliefs is rooted by religion, and beliefs can change your understanding and acceptance to things,
So is having a girlfriend that is a non-christian important or not? Let you decide.
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